玩物丧志
- Literal
- toying with things, losing one's will
- Figurative
- To lose one's drive and sense of purpose by indulging in hobbies or amusements; a reproach, often from parents to children.
Where does 玩物丧志 come from?
It comes from the 《尚书》, in the chapter “旅獒”. After the conquest of Shang, King Wu of Zhou received a large dog as tribute from a western people, and the Duke of Shao wrote a warning so that the king would not let rare gifts distract him: 玩人丧德,玩物丧志 — toying with people costs you your virtue; toying with things costs you your will. It was advice on government, about not losing sight of what matters. Today the phrase has become a household one, said of video games, collections or any hobby that makes someone neglect school or work, almost always as a reproach.
Source (出处): 《尚书·旅獒》
How is 玩物丧志 used? Two examples
- 爸妈总说我打游戏是玩物丧志,可我只是周末玩一会儿。
My parents keep saying video games will sap my ambition, but I only play for a bit on weekends.
- 他当上经理后迷上了收藏古董,玩物丧志,公司的事都不管了。
Since becoming manager he's been hooked on collecting antiques and lost his focus; he no longer bothers with anything at the company.